She will be pressured and will likely shut you out. One red flag I have for Mormon girls is if they drink coffee. I really like this girl but, is Mormonism so toxic that I should just sever the relationship before it gets serious. Said he wanted those extra few minutes in the morning, but prefaced it by saying he knew it was selfish of him. I don't think you should abandon the relationship just because she is lds. Medscape App Get fast, accurate answers for point-of-care decision making. No one, except someone who has been Mormon can understand how deep the hooks are sunk into the Mormon psyche. It is tempting for Mormon girls to become lazy because they have such a high standard compared to typical girls. Ma'am I really do thank you for being very blunt and quite honest in your writing about your life.
The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints teaches that all sexual relationships outside of marriage defined as the legal union between a man and a woman are sinful. Religious affiliation is not the only criteria when selecting a spouse. Mormonism is fundamental to my religious beliefs and my personal sense of identity, and it is the community that I identify with most strongly.
We have 2 school age children. Most of us were suckled on that teat too. I think a lot of people just yell run whenever this topic comes up and like you I think that's unfair. I've learned that when I need attention, it's best to ask for it rather than wasting time acting sad or frustrated. Again, reading your blog definitely opened up my eyes to many things I was totally oblivious to. You are the woman of valor eshet khayil sung about by Solomon in Proverbs 31 http: Good for you, good for your husband, and definitely good for your childen. And he is reading one of my favorite Buddhist-based books, in an effort to understand my beliefs.
Personally I have a rule that I will not enter a relationship with a believing Mormon. However, "medical families" can work. Do not put up with bad behavior at any stage of a relationship. How can I be more supportive. Yes, those of us in the hospital work longer and harder days than most people with 9 to 5s, but we still have off days. You've stated that she had numerous guys break up with her after she took sex off the table. It's gonna hurt, and it's gonna break her heart, but much less so than waiting until you've both committed to each other and start discussing your future together. It is not easy for a nonmember spouse to understand a three hour worship block plus callings etc. Can I add to this extremely old thread. She won't look at anything "anti-mormon" but if it's on LDS.