Either you are just fun for now or she wants to change you. Yeah man, don't doubt someone who was a missionary will try to convert you. If she is still Mormon and you are not, she will always secretly hope that you convert, just like you will always secretly hope she leaves the church.
Leave a Reply Cancel reply. Initially I thought he would join the church and life would get back on the only track I knew. That desire that they be someone other than who they were when they married you is toxic to a relationship. You've made good points about not bringing up the CES letter or anything that could be called "anti-mormon. I've supported him for 5 years, taken on that Doctor's Partner role, put my ambitions on the back burner, and it hasn't done a lick of good.
Maybe it won't be a big deal. Life will chuck all sorts of bouncers at you. This girl is also a real person, not a caricature of a cult member, and even if the ultimate result is a breakup, she deserves to be treated with compassion and respect. I am seeing one right now My late ex was a physician and I was with him through med school, internship, residency and 20 years of his own practice. Thanks for the help. If you have any questions about Mormonism doctrine or things or other angles on what she says feel free to message me. Sorry for the VERY late reply.
When missionaries come home, they are like top dog religious people. Leave her so you can both find people that youre more suited for. I ask myself that every day. And what you're saying about having a great night and then an amazing few days after before he disappears and you feel like shit again I also hate that he doesn't text me until he is ready to make plans again, although I did ask him to text me more often and he has gotten a little better about it. Would you rather give up the prospect of being married in the temple, the assurance of children being raised in the church, and parts of Mormon culture for your boyfriend, or a great man for your beliefs. If you aren't sealed together, say good-bye for eternity. Well, the thing is he knows exactly how I feel and he has offered to give it all up. Pray about it and follow your heart. Would she be okay with never being married in the temple.