But is it the path that will make you the happiest. By those standards, I was a failure, my husband wasn't "good enough" - and my daughter had ambitious real goals that required a lot of time and effort. Post was not sent - check your email addresses. Be fruitful and multiply.
First, my dad was a wonderful husband to my mother the greatest mom on earthand a wonderful father to me. She might be everything you want, but in her eyes you are not what she has been dreaming of her whole life. And the nonmember spouse may just put pressure on the member spouse to spend more time with them. You are too young to deal with this. The religion rather, and more importantly, the church itself is integral to most mormons' identity. Although it may indeed be a good idea to get out of this one, we all need to keep in mind that the situation is more complex than that. It is my opinion I know my husband loves to come home and only eat, sleep and have wild sex.
Of course, it will cause fights, as well. She's admitted to loving me before but she has problems and issues with what she wants. She's told me the church is one of the most important things to her, but from what I've researched already there's no way I would subject my future children to this culture.