But, as someone posted earlier we did not marry a physician completely for the status and money, we also expect as should any wife love and respect. Now look at the flip side в if he loves you, and realizes you fully believe, how will he deal with the importance of the temple to you. Please realize I know how the church works, was extremely active and raised good kids. Seclusion has served to preserve their desirable traits, but it also makes it difficult to gain rapport. Is he willing to, nay, interested. So that may be the end of it there. All in good time, my dear.
I knew intern year would be brutal and I hoped residency would be a little better, and it was. I'm dating a Mormon girl right now but we both understand that it is most likely isn't going to last long. Thank you for having this blog. Anyways, any advice on which of those times would be best since I know both have to be a sacrifice for him of some sort. I'm pretty disturbed by the level of dismissiveness seen in many of the comments here. She wants the eternal temple marriage and you will be her long term project TL;DR I considered ending my marriage of Save yourself pain by getting out before it gets harder. Unless you have those same understandings, I'm sad to say the relationship is almost certainly doomed.
I need suggestions to handld the neurotic behavior, ocd, and opinions. I decided that if the church taught the general principle that couples should be married in the temple and that was not possible for me if I married this girlthen I should see if my choice would be an exception to the rule. I think the LDS have been vastly over-simplifying that doctrine.
And if he loves you as much as you love him. It is soooo hard. Mormons think when you die, based on if you were a good person cough cough atheists you go to spirit "paradise" where they will teach you the gospel. I'll paste a URL with links to all of them at the end of this message.