I think my husband would do okay with the loneliness - just like I do. No one understands our lifestyle or how difficult it can be, not even my best friend and or family members no matter how hard they try to. She suggested instead watching something that was produced by the church itself. You aren't engaged or married or anything, you can't just know that she won't see the light and remain crazy Mormon forever. You will be expected to condone but not attend events in the temple to which you will not be granted access. In each case, you should also consider how this will affect your families. We have been together for just over a year and married for 3 months. Avoid the topic when you can, it's not something that'll be pretty unless handled in a calm discussion which Well, people as a whole tend to be pretty immature with big topics. She, her family, and her friends all believe that she can't get into the Celestial Kingdom VIP Heaven unless she is "sealed" to a Mormon husband. That's cool and everything until you realize that they're an archeologist or a missionary pilot and are in uncivilized areas with no modern methods of communication.
I suggest to run as it will not get better. Married to a Surgeon as well. From a guy's perspective, I was dating a doctor who was going through her final exams to become a registered specialist. That will most likely be the deal breaker for her. It is highly likely that she will pressure you to convert, and if you resist, she may resent you for being the barrier to her being sealed to her children. He has lived alone forever and now we are living together, engaged, and of course, I have moved to another state to be with him. I guess if u believe an angel with a sword really did force Joseph Smith to marry those girls.
My religious faith saved my sanity but I still worry. How is that gonna work. I have known many women who have married non-members and are happy. I have many friends and members of my family who married within the church and later divorced. As someone starting residency next year and whose father and brother went through it, and whose girlfriend is about to start it I have to say that you can't be mad at him for not sacrificing something to spend time with you - there is literally nothing else to sacrifice; residency is called residency because the doctors used to live in the hospitals, and it was akin to monks in monastery. Our relationship also hasn't really progressed-- we're still only spending the same amount of time together that we were a few months ago. But what does it really mean to be a patriarch, to lead your tribe.
Each to their own though. I remember when I had my first son via C-section, our families came to the hospital with Champagne and celebrated, not even one asked about my surgery…. You are commenting using your Twitter account. If you end up marrying a true believing Mormon, your marriage will be a threesome.