What can I or your spouse do to make my spouse feel more important besides not being a physician. I have suggested a date night just for us but, he doesn't want a scheduled night for dates. Yes I am married to a doctor also after being married for 5 yrs he decided to become a trama surgeon. Sorry, you can't reply to this topic. This man basically tells you in a simple way within 6 minutes. We always went every Sunday, had family prayer and scripture reading, etc. He should tell her that he will never convert, and that if she will not be happy unless he does, the relationship should end.
I thought I was very understanding and, while I did invite her out at other times, I was very clear that her studies were paramount and I wanted to support her as best as I could during this time. Love is what we do, not what we feel. Had to switch to more flexible job. A few weeks into the break, he moved to begin his EM residency. However, my situation is very different. If this happens, it might click something in her mind that says that what she experienced was pleasurable and she would like to have it again. Don't have any support as family is too far away and we're always on the move. Everyone seems to be supporting the idea that he is just too busy, but the truth is we over the internet can't judge his intent.
I met my wife at the age of She literally showed up at my apartment one night, wholly unexpected. Where do you find Mormon girls. I never thought fellowship would be worse than residency and boy was I wrong. If you have children how will they be raised. The church didn't do it to her but it helped create the environment that allowed it to happen. What goes on in those sacred temples. The man presides over everything. The fact she's dating you while you aren't a Mormon is at least a sign of hope.
You got some good advice from the other posters on how to maintain contact. Otherwise you're just denying them eternal salvation in their eyes. I walk on egg shells as well and feel like I am merely a maid, cook, nanny, etc I work to focus on the positive but the days are ing and lonely. The point missed in this article is that many doctors also have narcissistic personality traits. I've had friends with spouses that got Fulbrights or grants to study in other countries. On top of that, we don't have personal time for each other and as a family often. Not in endless discussions of temple marriage, not ever. Is he aware that if your children are faithful members of the church they might end of marrying in the temple and he would not be allowed to attend the ceremony. That's a really sad story. I mean, I get where it comes from but it's so ridiculous.