She is now happy with her uber-Mormon boyfriend and I am happily dating other people as well. I have dated all walks of TBM women TBM women are closet freaks. The best advice I can give is stay true to yourself. They require a healthy dose of flexibility, nontraditional expectations, and teamwork You aren't always gonna have a Christmas etc I can understand it would be hard to understand the cues you are getting if you have no basis for that lifestyle, but really think it over. I wish you the best. Forty plus years later I met my incredibly wonderful fabulous Mormon husband. Much good luck, and keep us in the loop. Her brain has been wired from birth by said cult. Ask her right out if she is at all interested in leaving TSCC. Most of the time, your boyfriend will be on call or at the hospital whenever you make plans with your friends or family.
The brethren have taught that there is an ideal pattern for marriage. She won't marry you. About two years into our marriage, I got sick of waiting in bed for him to come read scriptures with me. I have a better and fuller relationship with God because my own practice has been supplemented by additional observance. Propagandists in the media throw around the word patriarchy as if it is synonymous with anything male. But, I am a 3rd year medical student and my fiance is a 2nd year medical student.
Some Mormon girls succumb to worldly laziness. It was not just frustrating but also saddening and stressful. You are expecting him to be like your exes and you want him to be the one to chase you. Am I that woman. But, when you're married to a doctor, know that doctors don't sacrifice for their marriages. Obviously don't make any commitments further in the relationship because you do not want to be married into an insane orthodox LDS family because it will cause alot of troubles. Some exceptions and valid reasons do exist for divorce but self righteousness is not on of them. So that's something I can't say is good or bad. I got married to for love and companionship, not to essentially be lonely with a lot of nice things and raise my children "as if" I were a single parent.
Hi there I have been married to a doctor for 16 years, first 10 as an orthopod next 6 as a plastic surgeon and still working towards the dream of a big house to show for all this hard work. Life is not perfect. Thanks for the help. Everything about the loneliness and bourdon of raising the kids solo resonates. What can you expect. Don't expect a traditional marriage I am sorry for your story. There are a lot of single people in the world. If you are very much willing to accept and understand all of these, whether you are a Mormon or not, you can expect that it is fun to date a Mormon girl. This came about after many hours and many days of prayer, scripture study, going to the temple, receiving a priesthood blessing, and speaking with people I greatly trust my mom, especially.