What am I getting myself into. Many, many lapsed Mormons catch the true vision of the gospel at some time in their lives and desire to repent and become observant again. It's really somethi g to watch a person who is so self absorbed.
The fact that she's planning to go on a mission should help. This was the biggest one for me. The big one is that under Mormon theology both of you must be believing, fully active members to live together in the afterlife.
You can't provide that for her so your marriage will be defective from the outset. She sacrificed two years of her life to convert people to the religion. I think love and caring can be more important. As Joanna said, marriage takes some work no matter what, but being married to your best friend, and listening to the spirit brings great blessings. The importance of modesty. The views expressed herein do not necessarily represent the position of the Church. To me, the core question is, is this person inclined toward self transcendence are the inclined, desirous, self aware enough to be selfless. My parents, siblings and grandparents are all active members; as am I.
I wanted so badly to marry a guy who had recently left the church. I would probably suggest that you cut your losses now. And also I thought it was weird she wore some kind of pants that come to her knees under her other pants, but I never asked about that. He came to be by my side as soon as he could. Then you might want to talk about all the things her church requires.