Take the time he actually can give you, and appreciate it. MinsPackage speaks the truth. And there is NO taking them off to wear a sleeveless shirt, cute sun dress or regular, girl-length shorts in the summer. It may not seem like a big deal now, but eventually it will probably surface that at best, the church impacts and influences her behavior in almost every area, at worst, it dictates it. I went to BYU. He should tell her that he will never convert, and that if she will not be happy unless he does, the relationship should end.
The house is perfect, with nothing out of place. She is going to dump you. How is that gonna work. What a joke for an archaeologist.
It's a fairly new relationship and I don't want to jump to any conclusions. The church really needs to tailor to more partial LDS families, imho. If you and she are sealed in a Mormon temple, your children will be can be sealed to you. You can't reason with fanatics, and you got one. Am I wrong to hope for this. He also travels an inordinate amount. But he has been great till now. Well, you won't be getting into anything soon. I believe in temple marriage, and in the importance of those covenants.
I grew up in Utah, attended BYU, and served a mission. A good place to go is to a museum, hiking, or to a park. He later converted to her faith and was called to be a temple sealer.