If she doesn't care that you aren't a member now, if your relationship goes on long enough, she is going to care eventually. What do you do while they are away. Yes, anyone crazy enough to believe the story of gold plates should be able to rationalize a brown rock.
It's really cool to be able to connect with someone who shares all of those things with me. Don't fall in love with a doctor. Cousin the same age who just got married has known her husband 6 months. I love my non-member husband of nearly 20 years. At the end of the second date I knew I needed him in my life. Reading your blog has helped, especially in seeing that these lonely feelings are normal. It's easy to be blind to deal-breaking faults when you are young and in love.
It MAY be true that a year in, her shelf will crack and she'll leave with him. The fact she's dating you while you aren't a Mormon is at least a sign of hope. You will be kept abreast of political changes within the church that regulate your wife's behavior -- you are probably already aware of several rules she follows. Once she realizes you won't join and she can't get married in the temple, then I suspect everything will be over. Do you want to be married in the temple. They're very caring in some ways, but lack where it matters most. And can you talk about hard things together. However, I will have a talk with him about where things are going between us. There is no way out, either I need to continue to sacrifice myself or get out of this relationship. So I am at my dating prime.
Or should I just run and avoid a lifetime of heartbreak. I work in a different industry and have worked away from home my fair share. She still lives in her hometown though. What you are potentially choosing is certainly not the easiest path. For girls, being the right age for marriage usually means graduating high school, if not later. When I was a teen, my first boyfriend was a convert and people would comment on that instead of how nice he was to me. You can and should share with her why you don't and never will believe in the Mormon church, and let her decide for herself, but be prepared to have that blow up in your face. Anonymous, you are right.