My ex called me, I was so surprised, I answered the call and all he said was that he was so sorry for everything that happened, that he wanted me to return to him, that he loves me so much. There is no question that God loves all of His children, and that obviously includes non-members. Would she want you to attend church with her.
It also means that you have to give her something particular to do. I can accept her, and she's told me she can accept me The challenging part for me now is the idea of putting my kids through the brainwashing. I found that it worked just as well.
The odds are definitely not in OPs favor for something like this working for him. With his busy schedule, all of the household chores laundry, dishes, cooking, grocery shopping, cleaning, bill paying, etc. That desire that they be someone other than who they were when they married you is toxic to a relationship. When you come home do you just want to be alone. I'm sorry, but I don't pity you all. I have to say that reading this is exactly what I needed today. He married the new girl then cheated on her. And you will be shocked. You might need to trade missionary lessons for research on her part, and we can suggest less scary resources.
As I started to date and fall in love with my husband, almost everyone I knew was against it. I also remember my father a stake president telling me the night before I got married that every single couple he had counseled through marriage struggles were not reading their scriptures or praying together every night. If you try to deconvert her I suggest indirectly at first. I truly believe that if a man cheats he was always inclined to do so. Hopefully, your ex-boyfriend will realize that your relationship, emotional support, etc. This means no swearing, loud talking, or making offensive jokes. Before I met my husband I had dated quite a few members and some relationships were quite serious but I never felt right about it. You should also be willing to date other people. If you were the one who did the asking, it is simply chivalrous and gentlemanly for you to pay for dinner, the movie, or whatever else you do. This means that she will probably be dating others at the same time as you.