Never marry someone with the goal of a post-marriage conversion. It might be just a few seconds, depending, but evidence that he's thinking of you. There are some gems like admission to peep stone in a hat translation to the book of Mormon and angels with swords commanding polygamy, but if someone believes Joseph Smith really did stuff his face into a hat and translate scriptures about ancient jews coming to America, it means they are insane, and you can't reason with an insane person. The day could come where she has to decide between her relationship with you and her church. Trust yourself, trust God and enjoy the beautiful relationship that you have. It sucks to admit, but I broke up with him after 6 months because I didn't think there was any point if we couldn't be together forever. If this is someone you are to marry, then the rest will take care of itself. I have to say that I am a lucky woman. All i want to do it cry reading all of these posts. Stick around on this sub.
There may be underlying personality similarities, but if the answer to "what shall I do next" is always trumped by a Morman frame of reference for one partner, but not the other, conflict is inevitable. Eternity is a long time. I wouldnt encourage my kids to date a mormon. Todd Christofferson and the Watergate Scandal Mar 30, 0. I have to say that I am a lucky woman. He gets worshipped every day at work. She might be everything you want, but in her eyes you are not what she has been dreaming of her whole life. This is by design.
I have been dating a surgeon and we are thinking about marriage. We just celebrated our 11th wedding anniversary We have 5 children and like so many I feel alone most days. And right at that moment when I'm about to tell him this, and give him some kind of ultimatum, I hesitate. And what you're saying about having a great night and then an amazing few days after before he disappears and you feel like shit again I also hate that he doesn't text me until he is ready to make plans again, although I did ask him to text me more often and he has gotten a little better about it. To Anonymous, Your comment also left me heartbroken. You need to disabuse them of this notion. If He can answer prayers to help you find missing car keys, He surely can help you understand who it is that you should marry. You are not a worthy RM priesthood holder.
Mormons are very strict about avoiding sex outside of marriage. With so much pervasive degeneracy in the media, Mormon parents think they are safe showing their kids Disney movies. What if love is looking someone in the eye and saying, "You're making the biggest mistake of your life. I look at my single male doctor colleagues and some of them are sweet and honestly looking for a connection.