So I'm wondering if things will ever change or if this is just one of the drawbacks of dating a doctor. He had no idea what he was getting himself into. Now if your faith is not so strong to begin with, this perhaps is no big deal. How does one go about trying to develop a relationship with someone whose schedule is so unpredictable and whose free time is so sparse. Make sure she knows the plan, so you both can dress appropriately. To the two wondering sistersвYou both appear to be with loving, incredibly supportive men. However, you might be lucky to not have the experience I did. Sadly, the general consensus of "convert or nope out" sounds like what will end up happening.
Certainly not my husband. This also implies, there is no reason for me to further my education or career because he would prefer I have children immediately. But now he is a senior doc and is called on for all the difficult stuff and can't or won't say no.
That said, there are also a lot of pricks inside the church, who fully deserve membership. But now, in addition to being a primary spouse, I'm also the primary parent. He's not home much and his hours are crazy but, wow, I am one happy woman. No hard feelings, is not his fault, I said yes when he proposed based on the life wee had at that time, my fault for not doing some re search and find out how is really when you are a register or in the training programme. This is by design. I volunteer every week, I put others before myself, etc. Due to their religious teachings, Mormons do not smoke, drink alcohol or caffeinated "hot drinks" coffee or tea or do drugs. I don't think you necessarily need to cut ties with her. I envy all you lonely doctor wives.
There will, in fact, still be churches besides our own. I am so happy I found this blog. It's what I agnostic atheist exmo do with my girlfriend reasonable TBM.