And of course, when it happens, no one the leaver or the faithful spouse could have predicted it. It's an issue I just have to live with if I want to be with him, and I do, so I live with it. Find out what your partner thinks of as non-negotiable. You should ask yourself if you want to pursue a future partner who was raised in an environment that causes drastic sexual suppression and you may never have a healthy sex life if she is your wife. Drinkers tend to rely on drink before they can have fun. The "loneliness" is not an issue for me. Yes, do sever the relationship.
Now I feel like a stepford wife. It was not just frustrating but also saddening and stressful. He may never want anything to do with Mormons or the church again. The standard principles of day game apply. Whereas white and black may both sleep in on Sunday and tie their left shoes first, Mos have a set of behavioral norms that are in serious conflict with Nomo lifestyles. Much good luck, and keep us in the loop.
The best advice I can give is stay true to yourself. If everything she is taught is correct and the Mormon church is "true" she should be able to research any anti-Mormon books or movies and prove their criticisms are lies. I am so glad I found this blog. This is because they gave up the structure of what made them desirable in the first place. I am no longer the vivacious young girl……life has not been easy. Marriage offers a chance to develop generosity of spirit and a willingness to be improved by the one we love, no matter what faith tradition he or she may claim. They will serve as a constant reminder to her that she needs to conform- and you won't be wearing any. Mormons are very particular about dressing.
Is it naive to think we could raise our children to fully participate in two different faiths. Nobody has prepared her for one, definitely haven't prepared her for a healthy physical relationship. Or is this pretty standard behavior for a busy person in his position Just a heads up from someone in the medical field, the experience of residency will own them until the end of it. I have no kids with him I had one from a marriage before and I'm glad I have no kids with him now.