She's a shell of her former self and it breaks by heart to this day. In her letter to herself as a young doctor, Dr. My beliefs have changed several times in my life, but not those things, so my interfaith marriage has lasted 25 years. We have been together for over ten years, but only married for 6 months. When she had a strict 6: If there was a disagreement, one person was supposed to submit to the other, consult a rulebook that covered almost everything, or turn to a church leader to decide for them. But she understands that I am committed to the Gospel, and will never leave it either. This is something that's very important to her, and it's difficult to be married to someone who doesn't share the same values. Take your date to a club with loud music and an open bar, or an R-rated or violent movie, and the prospects of it going well are daunting.
If you can love them unconditionally with how they are now, then I say go for it. It seems like a minor point, but I have noticed that every Mormon girl who disobeys the Mormon direction to avoid coffee has something majorly wrong with her. No matter what anyone says. These are things your wife may consider matter-of-fact and you may be surprised by if you don't discuss them now.
Break up with her. If you and she are not sealed, your children won't be sealed to either of you. Invest in your love and keep it strong. This is the rule rather than the exception. Mormonism, like many extreme religions, often stunts the growth of its members. He then proceeded to beat the shit out of her for a decade. I've been working like crazy myself, so it is easy for me to understand time issues involved in drs' training. See where it goes.
Leave a Reply Cancel reply. All you have to do is be honest about your username here and you'll never see her again. It's unfair to assume that she feels that way without asking her.