He is living with the health effects from working upwards of hrs a week. And the nonmember spouse may just put pressure on the member spouse to spend more time with them. Should I get rebaptized. She wants the eternal temple marriage and you will be her long term project TL;DR I considered ending my marriage of Save yourself pain by getting out before it gets harder. But you can't make her think about the numerous facts that disprove Mormonism. I just wanted to let SN and AD know that, if you decide to choose this path, you are not alone. December 18, Please tell me you're not in NC, dagny.
Unfortunately, I can't answer the questions about marrying him etc. I am a soon-to-be Surgeon's wife and my boyfriend and I have started discussing the changes that are going to happen when he enters his residency. These insane hours are wearing on me and I fear what has happened to so many I know will start to happen to us. It is crucial to recognize that Mormonism has elements of belief, practice, and custom that work to make interfaith marriages especially difficult and inconvenient for both spouses.
I would advise you to try to be as understanding as you can of her point of view, because having you world view shattered is very difficult and can take a long time to recover from. Even though it sounds like she is very Mormon, I feel that this will help her. It gives people a sense of purpose, while pressuring them to be 'good' by their book. Oh, yeah, and this girl belongs to a verifiable cult. But the lies sting some people. I don't think it's going overboard, though, to state one very possible and very likely scenario, and that is that this girl may likely be completely indoctrinated and believing. You may look on here and see all of us, but a lot of us got out much much older.
Lonely is an everyday thing. My life may not be as stressful as that of a medical resident or a doctor, but I do often spend upward of 70 - 80 hours per week working. First of all, Mormons are people so there is a spectrum of what they actually believe on a personal level, and what beliefs are most important to them. Patriarchal leadership is something that most women in the world valued until recently, but it is still a chief value with Mormons. Patriarchal leadership is something that most women in the world valued until recently, but it is still a chief value with Mormons.