Some mormon girls are closeted freaks as someone here has already said. The Mormon university BYU is quickly falling due to these feminists. A straight-laced, returned sister missionary, raised in the cult, and in family of similarly entrenched cult members, will not likely remain happy with a non-member. I understand your internal conflict completely and my heart goes out to you. It really helped to make me feel better.
It sounds like you two haven't gotten exceptionally close and that it wouldn't be too hard on either of you to jump ship and move on. Narcissism, androgyny, obsession with pop cultureвthe problems with Western women go on and on. On the other hand, if you believe God is bigger than we can imagine, and is not constrained by religious dogma, you have as good a chance as any at a happy, thriving relationship. I do wonder if you ask this blog just to get supporting advice. T-1yr for me T-2yrs for him. Twitter did not respond. My kids have run as far away from medicine as possible in terms of a career and my daughter only dates people who have balance in their lives. It takes him about 20 minutes to get ready. I remember attending numerous priesthood meetings by myself and wishing dad were next to me. Talk about issues with Jehovah's Witnesses etc.
Don't let her try to bring in the missionaries to explain; remind her that she is an RM and knows all they do and probably much more. You know what the official line of the church is, and what bishops and stake presidents are likely to say. Do you drink alcohol. I wanted very much to make it work with us, and was willing to compromise in areas that I normally wouldn't. Like many single members of the church, I have often wondered whether I would be willing to marry someone outside of the temple, and over the past few years I have come to believe that I would be willing to do so. And after years of this struggle, will your love for him and desire to avoid the hassle cause you to reduce your activation.
While that is the case sometimes, it Is much more of an exception than a rule. My wife and her family are a good example of this. Response to your edit: Do NOT bring up or mention anything that could be considered "anti Mormon. It can burn, and it can burn you hardcore.