If you are a believer and are willing to go, then well and good. That isn't fair on you, and again will create stress and a stress point in the relationship. Because Utah mormons are waayyy different than mormons everywhere else. But wait a minute.
For every lesson and sermon preached about loving everyone, there are one or two lessons on avoiding outsiders because they will destroy your eternity. There are other issues at play here that are my husband's personal history and that he is now trying to come to grips with, and I have hope that we can put our marriage and our family back together-but the job marches on, relentlessly, and there is no time allotted for personal healing. Meaning that unless you are willing to become Mormon And your savings account.
I think it was Spencer Kimball who counselled that before marriage you should keep your eyes wide open and then after marriage keep your eyes half shut. Sexually, risque and the such is essentially the same as baptists and fundamental Christians. You are atheist and that's not changing. It has been very difficult to reconcile our two expectations, hopes and dreams.
There are times where u rarely hear from him and then he contacts me. I've had a super hard time finding folks who understand what I am feeling I have been married to an orthopedic surgeon for 35 years. I can accept her, and she's told me she can accept me The challenging part for me now is the idea of putting my kids through the brainwashing. I'm on the same page as you. Oh well, I'll just pretend she's not mormon and see what happens.