There is no question that God loves all of His children, and that obviously includes non-members. As an atheist with Buddhist undertones who married a non-practicing, god-believing Mormon at the height of his questioning, I find this so interesting to me. We long to have a connection that you don't have time for. Keep the relationship casual. Do you have to leave for work at six in the morning and don't get home until you kids are in bed. It would be ludicrous to think otherwise. Not every LDS person does, unfortunately.
Please think that there is something worse: Sometimes I feel the worst wife, mother and daughter. I got the news that my mother suddenly died when I was with him. When we are together it is amazing he obviously has work that he takes care of when I am there but for the most part he tries his best to leave work at the office.
Good luck with her, and good life to you. I deal better with inattention when he is home better than him as well. I am sure you can all guess how this ends As his moving date was approaching, he was spending more and more time with his friends and less and less time with me. If you are dating a Mormon man or woman, be genuinely interested in their religion. Things have been mostly good, but there are always challenges to deal with. It is only a few marriages I have seen make it where the female is the physician in the couples we have known in my husband's thirteen year career. The woman's role is to grow up, marry a worthy priesthood holder, and have a lot of kids. Congratulations on understanding that and avoiding problems. Thanks again for the help.
Also, I want to be fully supportive of his dreams and what he wants to become. March 18, Run for the hills. And that my friend, is just a hint of the extent of the brain wash that Mormons experience. The woman provides advice and counsel but doesn't preside. I've read through some stuff there and it all seems pretty tame so far. The city we will be living in for his residency is expensive as he is getting into a wonderful program. There is much that needs to change and many hearts to educate but if we doubt some of the fundamentals then why not all of them. I don't want to advocate manipulation but asking questions concerning Joseph's dishonesty about polygamy to his first wife and his marriage of other men's wives and marriage of a 14 year old may prove more fruitful than just saying wow polygamy is messed up.