Is this a sign of my own weakness. This girl is also a real person, not a caricature of a cult member, and even if the ultimate result is a breakup, she deserves to be treated with compassion and respect. I think we date twice a year.
I feel a sense of freedom would come with it, but I am also afraid of what this could mean for us in the long run. I've heard way too many stories of people breaking up with amazing people and they end up alone or in a less happy relationship. TwoXChromosomes subscribe unsubscribe 11, readers 6, users here now Welcome to TwoXChromosomes, a subreddit for both serious and silly content, and intended for women's perspectives. And it was the most miserable and lousy choice I ever made. If He can answer prayers to help you find missing car keys, He surely can help you understand who it is that you should marry. But on the main page of exmormon Reddit on the side bar there is a link to a site with links to all the pages on LDS. About two years into our marriage, I got sick of waiting in bed for him to come read scriptures with me. I find there are less disappointments when I know I am completely on my own. And his wife is angry and unappreciative and has no idea how difficult his profession is. For every lesson and sermon preached about loving everyone, there are one or two lessons on avoiding outsiders because they will destroy your eternity.
I get it; I just don't buy into it. As for deciding to marry someone who is not mormon, here is how I made the decision. The fact that she's planning to go on a mission should help. She cannot get into the top echelons of heaven without being sealed to a worthy priesthood holder in the temple for time and all eternity. How Soon to Call after a Date.
Thanks so much for all the time you've put into your replies. It's been really tough and am only hoping to see a glimpse of the reward soon, whether it is simply watching a movie and actually finish it in one sitting or finally having dinner in the same room. If she is motivated enough to want to go on a mission, she will likely not settle for having a second class "eternal companion" you who is a convert or one who cannot be sealed to her for eternity.