And after years of this struggle, will your love for him and desire to avoid the hassle cause you to reduce your activation. When my nomo husband does go to church we discuss the talks. No sex before marriage. Its great to hear advice from those who know. Also, love how you describe how God has our backs and we can actually act on the notion of things hoped for that are not seen instead of the quaint pseudo idea that all things are known in advance, step by step, and lead to mortal and eternal bliss. I want to make this relationship work so bad, but I feel like he will never understand.
And of course, when it happens, no one the leaver or the faithful spouse could have predicted it. While my husband is not a doctor he does have a job that requires very odd hours a-typical of the American and works all holidays. It really can be that simple. Someone or something always has his attention and focus.
She sounds so indoctrinated that like even if you try to get her to open up, who knows you might get like a BJ out of it doesn't sound like it but who knowsyou have to realize that a lifetime of conditioning will be set in motion in her mind that will make your life hell. You can't reason with fanatics, and you got one. Yes, because that is generally what is best. And then run from this girl if you don't think there's a chance she'll wake up. If all the Mormons truly were the pricks we often claim them to be, then Mormonism would be the perfect punishment for them. Both independent and had the same life goals, family life plans etc. Forty plus years later I met my incredibly wonderful fabulous Mormon husband. Then the girl decided still not to date him after all.
It broke my shelf, we left as an entire family, and our marriage is better than ever. He's been in the medical field for over 16yrs and I didn't have a problem when we were dating 6yrs ago but since he proposed 2yrs ago I've been feeling very unsecured. She is a returned missionary, and won't Marry you if you want to stay atheist. On her mind, her eternal salvation depends on marrying a worthy priesthood holder. I want to serve a mission in my old age with my husband.