My sisters married to the temple served a mission etcв. RUN like the wind. There are many good things.
My current atheism bothers him a little but as long as we respect each other it's fine. You won't know this until you do it and that is really important information to get before a marriage contract. I think nothing really prepared either of us for fellowship though. I feel like now more than ever, I am expected to just not have an opinion about anything or even a say in how we spend our time together. I am fortunate to be married to a surgeon who, although he has "the ego," he maintains Christian values in our home.
So, kudos to you for having such a wonderful relationship for so long and getting through step 1 and 2 and matching. And that my friend, is just a hint of the extent of the brain wash that Mormons experience. So there's THAT to look forward to. He might just be unpracticed at your "love language".
Break it off amicably now, before it gets too difficult. I've moved to be with him for med school, then we moved again for residency and just moved again for fellowship. This could possibly be worked out with some communication; perhaps he just hasn't given it enough thought to realize how shitty it is It's very inconsiderate of him. But my relationship with him is worth this small sacrifice. Besides the obvious brain damage that you will be made to suffer your entire married life, there are future kids to think about. I am dating a wonderful man, amazing. The issue is that we have really spectacular sex that will often last for hours including foreplay haha, not all PIV, thank God. I'd suggest the essays. At that point we quit going and focused on her goals and family bonding.