You can't reason with fanatics, and you got one. I will keep reading, but it looks like most of the stuff about racism and polygamy has been "adequately" explained away by updates to LDS. Trust your instincts and your spiritual promptings. Hopefully they have some say in it, but I'm speaking about other churchgoers' expectations here, and probably your wife's. So I was falling head over heels for this guy, but in the meantime I didn't feel like we were going anywhere. Hopefully, it will give a little insight into Mormonism's insidiousness. My father told him it's never too late to leave whether we are married with kids or just engaged. I'm a doctors wife, my husband is a speciality physician.
I am a fierce supporter of him and of his profession but at high cost to my own individuality. Be prepared to experience many disappointments, such as missed events, delayed arrivals and early departures due to patient needs. And his wife is angry and unappreciative and has no idea how difficult his profession is. Seclusion has served to preserve their desirable traits, but it also makes it difficult to gain rapport. Business of Medicine Navigate the complex business, legal, and ethical arenas towards building and maintaining a successful medical practice. He was patient and supportive, promising to continue acting like a TBM for as long as I wanted our baby is 4, so that likely would have been at least 14 years. It's what I agnostic atheist exmo do with my girlfriend reasonable TBM. I think a lot of people just yell run whenever this topic comes up and like you I think that's unfair. He was lonely, as was she. There have been times in my marriage where I have been frustrated and angry by his lack of change.
You need to disabuse them of this notion. I try to visit for a couple hours here and there. I've only seen him 3 times. I'm firmly in the RUN camp. But I was unusual in that I never really wanted to convert my husband I was worried I'd have to divorce him if he turned true Mormon and he didn't need me to believe way he does. In my home ward, the non-member son of one of the members of the Bishopbric was able to stand up with the Priesthood and hold his baby girl while they gave her baby blessing. Mixed races, however, are NOT tied into opposing beliefs and mixed races don't try to "convert" each other.
I wish you all well on your recovery from this particularly vile church. This woman is a human being, not a caricature of a TBM. So now I am here and I have made a go of it for a year, found a new job, made new friends, tried to grow to like a culture that is foreign to me. Tough to say what will impact your girl most - but there's your best LDS. I know my husband appreciates me looking into it because he knows I am doing it to gain an understanding into the culture he was raised in.