We still have great sex 3 or 4 times a week and, no, he doesn't use Viagra, Ciasis, etc. I don't mind staying home because I understand he's tired. I am now 40, I have been seeing this man now my husband for 17 years. If you are feeling neglected, then tell him so. I think about leaving all the time now because by myself there are no disappointments.
Oh your fiance works in the medicine field, too. Especially if they're devote enough to expect you to marry in heaven, huge implications with that one. Once she realizes you won't join and she can't get married in the temple, then I suspect everything will be over. What if she absolutely despises sex. Even if the church believes a bunch of crazy nonsense, and she believes it too, I still really like her and would like to see whether we can have some good intellectual conversations about this stuff. We started dating the summer before medical shool. I am very active with my work, social life, and activities and independent.
I have this brain trapped after all these years. My wife chose me, but most people aren't so lucky. Every one thinks I'am a single parent. Hence, ensure that the girl or guy you want to date is above 16; although with changing times, some kids may date younger, if your love interest is not keen on going out until 16, then hold off. God Bless you and all the other doctors' wives that have transparently shared their experiences on your page.
But my relationship with him is worth this small sacrifice. Moved homes 5 times in that time. Full respect and care. Marriage to the right person is wonderful. It would put him in a position of feeling less and being looked down on. Did you know Joseph smith married the wives of other living men. He is always on call, too stressed, too tired etc etc. When I think about it now it sounds absolutely mental and there is no way I would do it again.