My daughter thinks it's funny that she's known her SO 4 years - not ready for marriage. Some people really can't wait, others can, and there is nothing wrong with either of those. I'm always torn between wanting to spend time together doing loads of fun things and giving him space to pursue his dream. I've a,ready been a single parent once. I love my non-member husband of nearly 20 years. Learn more about the LDS Church. As for the Mormon cohort he will be exposed to, I have two thoughts: And so far as I could tell, it worked and no one tried to drag her husband into the church.
I feel like this pressure of finding a residency has already taken a toll in our relationship and somewhat "controlled" us for so long that I am already so tired of it. Our communication is mostly via texts, but he keeps me in the loop at work, and I do the same. I had many, many friends who moved this quickly during courtship, too. Best wishes to those struggling with these big, life-altering decisions.
I am in my first year of medicine. So that's something I can't say is good or bad. That is her ultimate goal when it comes to dating and choosing potential mates.
After our first kiss she lets me know she won't have sex with me because she's mormon and we'd need to be married first. You have to have very thick skin to stay in it. But now he is a senior doc and is called on for all the difficult stuff and can't or won't say no. With minimal support on my side and going against everything I had grown up learning, I had to trust my relationship with God. There is no way out, either I need to continue to sacrifice myself or get out of this relationship. As a parent, we hope our children will make life choices that will give them the greatest chance of happiness. You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log in without password NEW.