Take your date to a club with loud music and an open bar, or an R-rated or violent movie, and the prospects of it going well are daunting. He may never come out and say it, but if you mention marriage outside of the church and he's OK with it, you have a slight chance of being happily married to her and not being mormon. Toxic is the right word. Thanks for the comment. If all the Mormons truly were the pricks we often claim them to be, then Mormonism would be the perfect punishment for them. She was fine marrying in an LDS church instead of the temple, didn't want to convert me, and most importantly didn't try to change my beliefs or opinions. You need to repent and change. Having said that, I believe strongly that it takes a special individual who can remain active in the church and have a non-traditional marriage. To embrace each others needs and interests, it seems I am destined to long for this connection into eternity. It does kick your butt!.
I don't think so. My ex called me, I was so surprised, I answered the call and all he said was that he was so sorry for everything that happened, that he wanted me to return to him, that he loves me so much. What am I getting myself into. If a direct contact is simply not possible given the residency schedule, then how about a bedtime phone call.
If I were to signal him everytime I thought about him, I'd be on the phone with him almost all of my waking hours. If you think your girlfriend's resistance to being exposed to anything critical of Mormonism sounds cult-like, you are right. After deep soul searching, I decided to stop working and be a stay at home mom.
Ragonk If you don't get it, never mind. How is that gonna work. I was not in any way dissing her personally, nor dissing her at all, really Many people here have told the guy to run; I just went into more detail. Trust your instincts and your spiritual promptings.