I was going to get engaged to a surgen Indians do go for arranged marriage but my teacher she is married to a doctor asked me if i could manage to sacrifice family time after i get married to a doc. If you aren't sealed together, say good-bye for eternity. Given the fact that doctors, esp surgeons, have a very busy life in US, it seems logical. I will be marrying my doctor boyfriend soon, and I have to say, I have never been more lonely. The Mormon church is certainly a time consuming church. And some will do that. But realistically, if she is not open minded enough to even listen to someone who has a contrasting view of the church - how will she not continually discount you and your lack of beliefs. I work full time as well and have supported him throughout med school. Usually, when Mormon girls marry non-Mormon men, these women forsake their religion and revert to ordinary American woman. If you decide to marry this man, you both will find a way to be happy and have a wonderful marriage, not that perfect that we see in the Sundays at Church.
He isn't in school and doesn't have much idea about what it is like to be in my shoes. Thank you so much for putting this Blog together. When we're together, everything is good. Sorry for the VERY late reply. Thank you for having this blog. Mormon theology is pretty clear: But Mormon theology is also rich with opportunities for second chances.
This can also be the basis for forming important friendships, and learning proper skills for social interaction. Part of the reason I created it is because my friends find it hard to understand. He is doing 2nd year Residency. And you must be honest in your conversation with God about it. Does he have a faith similarly conversion-focused as I could see that being a challenge. About Mormon Girl academics belief belonging BYU coming back conversion faith transition family feminism Friendship intellectuals lgbt liberals literature Love marriage missionaries mormon history Mormon Youth parenting politics polygamy priesthood social connectedness theology Uncategorized Women working mothers young women. You are the woman of valor eshet khayil sung about by Solomon in Proverbs 31 http: Good for you, good for your husband, and definitely good for your childen. Fifty years later, not one of her 3 children, her dozen grandchildren or her numerous great grandchildren is an active member of the LDS church. I cried watching Kung fu panda 2.
And to be fair, he always does contact me to see each other eventually So while some of his behavior makes me question stuff, other times I feel like this is just a phase due to his residency and maybe this is worth hanging on for down the road. Can he see the good in it, or does he focus on the more controversial aspects. It is fundamental that we focus foremost on developing ourselves as suitably strong men.