This can be a good way to learn more about your personalities. Now to answer you question more directly, I believe you should discuss your fears with him so he understands exactly where you want your relationship to go for both of you, otherwise you might grow resentful of him and he may have no clue as to why. They therefore have a high standard to work toward.
Yup, know how that feels. And some will do that. Tears in my eyes after reading this.
So any support on how to deal with ocd behavior, heavy handed opinions, would be helpful. I hope that makes sense. Lonely is an everyday thing. If you like her, and I'm assuming you do, I would suggest you continue the relationship and see how things pan out. If you both comfortable having different faiths, your relationship can still be rewarding and fulfilling. She needs to be, and maybe she will get there. He might just be unpracticed at your "love language". I'm not saying you shouldn't pursue the relationship, but I'd only recommend marrying her if she leaves the church because she discovers it's not true. At least people of different races are aware of those differences, and are on alert to deal with them.
So marrying a doctor might be ideal for me. We are alone for many months at a time. I made a conscious decision to marry outside the church for my own reasons. But my son will be 14 then and I will feel that I've already done the work of raising a child. Sorry man, but if I knew what I know now I would have cut my losses. Make sure she knows the plan, so you both can dress appropriately. I also studied his advice for approaching and dating women.