I've only been married for 1 year and the situation is kicking me right on my behind. The idea of a rich doctor is almost antiquated. The church creates massive guilt and shame in children and adults usually through sex related shaming. I am a non-Mormon woman married to a Mormon manвwhich seems to be a less common scenario in the LDS world.
I started dating "A" right after he graduated med school and as he started his residency. At best they just try to include you in the community, and at worst you are constantly told that you'll be welcome "when you're ready. Be prepared for divorce. I would advise you to try to be as understanding as you can of her point of view, because having you world view shattered is very difficult and can take a long time to recover from. But on the main page of exmormon Reddit on the side bar there is a link to a site with links to all the pages on LDS. She will not marry you until you convert to mormonism whole cloth.
Girls then struggle to reconcile degenerate popular culture with Mormon expectations. When out on a date with a Mormon guy or girl, be very decent, courteous, and well-mannered. How am I certain. Many symptoms of pain and discomfort can only be diagnosed with tests at the hospital. The closet is deep though I think that's seriously generalizing.
My advice would be to become as familiar as possible with her schedule, and then plan activities that will allow you both to get to know each other better, avoid movies. Cold approaches on Mormon girls are challenging. She is instructed to have children within wedlock very soon, raise these children in a Mormon home, and devote hours each week to church activities plus Sabbath observance on Sunday. One big question is, does he make you a priority when he has the time to be able to make something other than work a priority. The reality, however, has been far from it, as the small number of wives we do have in the program seem to be busy raising their kids or not really interested in developing these relationships. Another simple and doable option is to go online; there are many LDS dating sites where you can sign up and meet new and interesting people.