I am a career military man's wife. And, as I was writing the reply, above, those thoughts went through my head. I loved being single, and I love dating him now, but demanding rotations are giving me an idea of what his surgical residency will be like except that I know it will be x I have spent hours and hours and hours on blogs like these, trying to understand if it will be worth it-- worth the very real possibility of losing my identity, of boxing myself in career-wise, of never being in control of where I live, of a thousand lonely nights. I've luckily broken down my GF's defenses about the church a little bit. I am a non Mormon. We just celebrated our 11th wedding anniversary We have 5 children and like so many I feel alone most days. If your relationship has gotten very serious, your girlfriend will probably try to find agreement in your faiths. They are an essential part of my existence The part that among all the heartbreak and death and pain of my patients, makes me feel like a human being, worthy of having my own life. I would never ever choose a different path.
If you end up marrying a true believing Mormon, your marriage will be a threesome. This is something that's very important to her, and it's difficult to be married to someone who doesn't share the same values. I feel very sad sometimes but I try to stay strong. I was scared to bring it up and make it seem like a demand or ultimatum, so I think I will approach him in the way you described. I do not understand what makes these nurses think that they have a place in his life.
Weirdly, one of the best sexes I ever had was with a lesbian who felt remorse and as though she had betrayed her fellow lesbians. Is it really worth it to give up what I want out of a relationship because its hard to balance studying which I understand is stressful and being with the person who makes you happy. He has cheated on me and promises he won't do it anymore. I'm still holding on and willing to wait for "Better days" with him after his residency. Otherwise you risk having an awkward mix between dating and hanging out, which can be uncomfortable for those involved. I know it will get better over time. I was not moving with him until there was a promise and it would still take me a few months to find a job and relocate.
And, as I was writing the reply, above, those thoughts went through my head. I wish you all well on your recovery from this particularly vile church. Marriage offers a chance to develop generosity of spirit and a willingness to be improved by the one we love, no matter what faith tradition he or she may claim. Inthe same year she moved cross-country again. I am sure you can all guess how this ends As his moving date was approaching, he was spending more and more time with his friends and less and less time with me. Or, if I'm at work, even though I'm constantly busy, even if I wasn't, I can't just pull my phone out and call--i'm at work. Best wishes to those struggling with these big, life-altering decisions. Submit a new text post. Perhaps it was just her personality but I find most doctors repulsive.